People are often judged by the situation we find them in. As if living one's life to a specific guideline with lead you to the perfect life. So when we see one in misery we assume they are deserving of the fate that has been dealt to them, and pat ourselves on the back for not being like them. But you'll find a much better way to understand a person is not by the situation that they're in, but how they got there. How someone gets from point A to B says so much more.